to have or not to have....which one

Hello I have just joined! i have a consultant appt tomorrow to look at band or sleeve... not quite decided both have advantages. Being honest as i am self funding i can afford a band in the UK or sleeve, well id have to go abroad



I am really keen to hear from anyone who went abroad for sleeve, where did you go, how much?



I am a BMI of 36, i know its not as high like some... but after battling all my adult life i am just beyond struggling with yo yo wardrobe needs.



I want to deal with weight and food finally, be healthy and look to just enjoy life.



So i am decided on surgery, no more starving, milkshakes, pills and points.....



I would love to find a buddy, i am looking to have surgery late oct or Nov 2014 or just a group of people who get our struggle.



I have only told 2 friends/family about this.



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to have or not to have....which one